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最好的爱情

我们要怎样才能做到最好的爱情?

 在路途上想起爱情来，觉得最好的爱情就是两个人做个伴。
　　　　
不要束缚，不要缠绕，不要渴望从对方的身上挖掘到意义，那是注定要落空的东西。
　　　　
而应该是，我们两个人，并排站在一起，看看这个落寞的人间。
　　　　
有两个独立的房间，各自在房间里工作。
　　　　
一起找小餐馆吃晚饭。
　　　　
散步的时候，能够有很多话说。
　　　　
拥抱在一起的时候，觉得安全。不干涉对方的任何自由，哪怕他还在和旧日女友联络。

不对彼此表白，表白是变相的索取。

很平淡，很熟悉，好像他的气味就是你自己身上的气味。

不管何时何地，都要留给彼此距离。

随时可以离开。

想安静的时候，即使他在身边，也像是自己一个人。

有一致的生活品位，包括衣服，唱片，香水，食物等等。

不太会想起对方，但累的时候，知道他（她）就是家。

我们很容易碰到的，都是自私或者愚蠢的人。他们爱别人，只是为了

证明别人能够爱自己。或者抓在手里不肯放，直到手里的东西死去。

成熟的感情需要付出时间去等待它的果实。但是，我们一直欠缺耐心。有谁会用10年的时间，去等一个远行的人？又有谁会在10年远行之后，依然想回头找到那个人？有些爱情因为太急于要得到它的功利，无法被证明，于是也就不得成立。

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Beibei走了..

She's gone....

地震,让我看到了许多许多的爱.原来中国人的爱也可以这么团结的.

羊城中伤盛大的的事件 让人无语了.国难当头,还有人那么恶劣的对自己的话毫不负责..盛大在我们眼里确实不那么实在.用QQ赚了那么钱.可是人也是良心的,震灾让大家都团结起来了,作为最先接触到灾情的这么一群人,也是最先被感动并作出行动的一群...不让人佩服 还让小人抓了把柄...试问, 面对这样的天灾, 我们还有几人能昧得的起良心, 给人落井下石..:要饭的大爷捐出了自己身上所有的钱,战士冒着生命危险喊着:我还能救一个,12岁的小孩为救不认识的女同学重伤昏迷却还呢喃着:我抓住她了!

这里哪一个真实的故事不会让人感动流泪,看着新浪首页那一个个煽情的标题,眼泪根本没有停的理由. 不是情绪化! 是太多的感动只能用眼泪表达!

难过,是因为同一个世界,在我的中国,灾区的人们死伤无数,我却安然无恙的在另外一个半球过着我的正常生活..

强烈的无助...觉得我应该和国内的人一起承受这一切,我也想看新闻知道哪里又有人被救了,知道哪里又有余震的...我的手真的不够长...

今天最让我感动的是我的房东,一个从来没有回过国的越南华侨,平时抠得要死的小男人竟然很沉重的给我一百块说, 叫你在国内的妈妈帮我捐了吧. 让我感动而且自豪的中国人!

转一首在新浪 blog上看到的匿名诗, 你不能不感动.

《孩子快抓紧妈妈的手》

——为地震死去的孩子们而作

（感谢作者）

孩子，快

抓紧妈妈的手

去天堂的路

太黑了

妈妈怕你

碰了头

快

抓紧妈妈的手

让妈妈陪你走

妈妈

怕

天堂的路

太黑

我看不见你的手

自从

倒塌的墙

把阳光夺走

我再也看不见

你柔情的眸

孩子

你走吧

前面的路

再也没有忧愁

没有读不完的课本

和爸爸的拳头

你要记住

我和爸爸的模样

来生还要一起走

妈妈

别担忧

天堂的路有些挤

有很多同学朋友

我们说

不哭

哪一个人的妈妈都是我们的妈妈

妈妈

哪一个孩子都是妈妈的孩子

没有我的日子

你把爱给活的孩子吧

妈妈

妈妈

你别哭

泪光照亮不了

我们的路

让我们自己

慢慢的走

妈妈

我会记住你和爸爸的模样

记住我们的约定

来生一起走！

Show me the upstanding citizen whose "rightness" and probity put every other sign to shame and I will show you a Virgo. No other sign of the occidental horoscope system (except at times the Capricorn) has such a well-developed sense of what is proper and meet in any situation. The Virgo is clear-thinking and almost never misses the mark. Virgo is logical, analytical and keeps a cool head.
Virgos are not coldhearted or indifferent. They are loving and even slightly grasping about their love objects. Virgos are both sensual and gentle people. But what is so peculiar to Virgos is their ability to penetrate the fog of subjective thinking that surrounds emotion-laden situations. Run up to a Virgo and cry, "My house is ablaze! My children are inside! Help! Do something!" The Virgo: "Where do you keep your ladder?" Practical and down-to-earth, the Virgo can be looked to by almost any of the rest of us hysterics to keep calm and do the right thing.
Because Virgo people are methodical, they enjoy living in organized and pleasantly decorated surroundings. They are concerned with precision and enjoy keeping order. Meticulous to a fault, Virgo has to struggle to accept untidiness. Virgo eschews mess.
Often people in high positions in industry turn out to be born under the sign of Virgo. In power, however, Virgos sometimes have trouble getting along with their coworkers. They have difficulty communicating their displeasure without being biting and critical. If a Virgo boss thinks John acted badly at the office party, he may call him on the carpet, saying something like "John, you acted like a perfect idiot last Friday night. This behavior of yours is pathological. You had seventeen Scotches." Diplomatic, Virgos are not. But their ability to analyze complex situations is at the least astute.
Virgos are gifted for art appreciation and are very often creative. They have good taste and know how to judge fine quality. Often Virgos have collections of delicate antiques or precision instruments. They know how to take care of things and can be trusted to return borrowed items.
In the shortcoming department, Virgos may like to gamble, try drugs or dabble in the seamier sides of life. Virgos can become addicts and near-residents of casinos. Drugs have a sedative effect on them. A desire to alter Virgo's rigid consciousness? A need to vacate? La nostalgie de la boue? Whatever. Virgos must be on guard against self-destructive tendencies.
Virgos can be terrible snobs. For some reason, Virgos often think themselves separate and not-so-equal beings in relation to the rest of the world. They like to have "important" friends and tend to stick up their noses at "trashy" people. Perhaps, as Virgos are so orderly, anybody slightly less exacting seems beneath them. In any case, I always feel that Virgos need a good tickle. They are a bit on the stiff side and could stand to have a turquoise popsicle melted over their heads.

From a guys point of view:

• We don't care if you talk to other guys.
• We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room, and you jump up and tackle him without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.  It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

• We don't care if a guy calls you.

But at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till he morning.

• Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you.  The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me.

• Don't be mad when we hold the door open.

Take Advantage of the mood im in.  LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON'T 'FEEL BAD', We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you.'

• Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

• You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

• Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily.

• Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

• Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'.

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand im not sayin i wouldn't like it ether.

Girls: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT.

• Someone who will honor your morals.
• Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
• Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
• Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
• Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..........AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!
• Give the nice guys a chance 

Cuddling

Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold.

Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

Movies

Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder.

Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her. 

Loving each other

Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it. 

Laying below the stars

Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat

Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. Now make a wish about something you would like to happen Between you and your crush....

新的一年里祝大家 "新年快乐 吉祥如意 万事大吉"

还祝本命年的我能消灾避难 大富大贵

2008年可不只是我的照片收藏夹里多出一个2008的文件夹, 意味着我进入24岁了,也意味着开始读研究生了,更着意味着我们面对着越来越不一样的人生.

怕怕的.这样子的2008年.

朋友们的分离,不一样的生活和学习环境给我强烈的不安定感.原来我来得也久到要面临这一切的时候了.

红短裤都准备好了, 朋友们说要满身红才不会衰. 魔呀怪呀衰运什么的, 快闪开吧.

看着倒计0点时候出现的烟花,我许下了好多愿望: 希望顺利完成学业, 希望爸爸妈妈,家人,还有身边的朋友们身体健康,还希望我...

呵呵.总之..

新年新气象.

12个星座都有相容和不相容的人，他们也都有星座不同的区分：

白羊座
天生绝配：狮子、射手（等级速度）
相斥星座：金牛、摩羯、处女（慢郎中）、天蝎、巨蟹（阴森）

金牛座
天生绝配：水瓶、双子、天秤（充满想像力）、处女、摩羯、巨蟹（铜臭味相同）
相斥星座：水瓶、双子、天秤（不着边际）

双子座
天生绝配：金牛、白羊、狮子（容易哄骗）、水瓶（脑筋急转弯）、射手、天秤（玩心相同）
相斥星座：金牛、双鱼（没有交集）、摩羯（食古不化）

巨蟹座
天生绝配：金牛、处女、摩羯（长期投资）、天蝎（满足占有欲）、狮子（阳刚配阴柔）
相斥星座：射手（风流）、水瓶（爱朋友比爱家人多）

狮子座
天生绝配：双子（国王配骗子）、天秤（包装精美）、双鱼（马屁精）、射手、白羊（花钱速度相近）
相斥星座：天蝎、水瓶、射手（不给面子）、金牛、处女、摩羯（又抠又保守）、巨蟹（疑神疑鬼）

处女座
天生绝配：金牛、摩羯、双鱼（懂得包容）、射手、水瓶（出乎自己想像范围）
相斥星座：射手、水瓶（逻辑不相同）、白羊（缺乏大脑）、狮子（膨风）、双子（说话像放屁）

天秤座
天生绝配：狮子（包装抢眼）、双子、水瓶（伶牙俐齿）
相斥星座：白羊（粗鲁）、巨蟹（刁顽）、摩羯（死气沉沉）、天蝎（阴阳怪气）

天蝎座
天生绝配：巨蟹、双鱼（敏感度相同）、金牛、处女、摩羯（有实力没脑力）
相斥星座：人为鱼肉、我为刀俎（冷眼控制各星座）

射手座
天生绝配：狮子、白羊（英雄相惜）、双子、天秤（好玩伴）、水瓶（一起做白日梦）
相斥星座：金牛、处女、摩羯、巨蟹（苦瓜脸）、天蝎（阴晦神秘）

摩羯座
天生绝配：金牛、处女、巨蟹（省钱一族）、天秤、双鱼（酸硷中和）
相斥星座：白羊、狮子、射手（败家子）

水瓶座
天生绝配：水瓶（自视甚高、自恋的倒影）、双子、天秤（快人快语）
相斥星座：金牛、处女、摩羯（不会变通）、天蝎、巨蟹、双鱼（死缠烂打、眼泪鼻涕淹死人）

双鱼座
天生绝配：十二星座（鞠躬尽瘁、死而后已）
相斥星座：没有（牺牲小我、完成大我）

还记得当初还有激情轻狂的时候,我会觉得我要尝试我所以可以尝试的东西,不要留下遗憾.所以我去纹身.

现在想想当时是多么的精力过剩,可以翻来覆去的折腾自己, 现在身旁又听到有些朋友想要纹身.原来这是一个过程.

当时大小S刚开始红的时候,我曾厚着胆子跟妈说,我也想纹身..我妈说你纹了就别进家门了....我吓到不轻,真的就从此断了这个念头.

后来跟我的这班妖精们混到一块之后,却有了这个胆子.

第一次的小黑真是痛晕我了,可是现在已经开始失宠了,因为太痛,帮我纹身的壮男就草草收手了,所以上色不匀. 第二只小白就乖多了,没几分钟就搞掂,但是也算是偷来的创意, 可是自己爱到不行.

可是让我伤心的是,每每有人看到我的纹身,就会猜这是什么. 蜘蛛?站在电线上的鸟?老鼠?狐狸???就是没有猫~~~!!吼吼!!也算是个噱头吧..

之前看到最欣赏的一个纹身, 是一只纹在耳后下面一点的猫,受惊的样子所以毛都竖起来了,想想觉得应该很痛的吧..

感觉这一年走过来,自己好像成熟不少,开始想过安定的生活了.妖精们也都是这样.为自己想要的生活开始忙碌了.

应该不会再去纹身了吧.

New school semester:

At the first week:

At the second week:

Before the mid-term test:

During the mid-term test:

After the mid-term test:

Before the final exam:

Once know the final exam schedule:

7 days before final exam:

6 days before final exam:

5 days before final exam:

4 days before final exam:

3 days before final exam:

2 days before final exam:

1 day before final exam:

A night before final exam:

1 hour before final exam:

During the final exam:

Once walk out from the exam hall:

After the final exam, during the holiday:

The End

　　　　　　　　　　　蒲公英的花语 ． 无法停留的爱

蒲公英是安静的,总在绿花丛中的角落里静静的等着什么,或者是被风吹散,然后流浪,流浪.

安安分分的

安分的蒲公英就这样在天空飘着,它总觉得这不是自己喜欢的地方.直到有一天飘的累了终于想要停歇,想要留在一个还算安逸的地方。

可是偏偏当他想留下来的时候,风却又把它带走了,永远无法停留.. 或许这就是它的命运,短暂的缘分

凄美而又苍凉

平淡而微小

没有人们惯常所欣赏的花草的姿容

风起的时候 就会随安的飘向天空

从来没有前世来生 也由不得天注定

小的时候的记忆满溢着蒲公英

放学的我们 偶尔会在路旁看见蒲公英娇小却挺立的样子, 调皮的我们就会争着撅着小小的嘴去吹她. 那样纯真的时候 却不知道蒲公英是这样的倔强. 小小的她们, 遇到湿润的泥土就会再次长大

蒲公英. 草地上， 风儿吹， 蒲公英， 打瞌睡， 梦见怀里小宝宝， 变成伞兵满天飞。